Family and Relationship Life

 Family is the most beautiful thing one can get. Everyone has someone whom he/she loves more than himself/herself. Everyone is a good person to someone. Even your enemy is a good person to someone. As I say, your life will be happy if you think it is happy.

I don’t fight with any person, even if it’s his/her mistake. I think of them as a person from my family. I give a smile and move on. I am not the richest person neither do I have any special talent but I can assure you that I am happier than many rich and famous people.

My family consists of my mom, dad, sister, sister’s husband, little nephew, many uncles, aunts, cousins and most importantly me.

They are not the only people I have in my family. I have many people whom I call as my brothers and sisters. That feels good as it makes me feel that everyone around me is my family. Also, I treat the parents of my friends, other brothers and sisters as my own parents. I feel like the happiest person on this planet who is surrounded by a big family.

If you want to be a part of my family, then I will be happy to welcome you to my family. I don’t care about you color, region or age. I don’t care whether you are rich or poor. All I want is a true person to be a part of my family.

My life is happy even though I don’t have a family of my kind. Each and everyone in my family are different. None of us have a similar likes but we all live together, love each other and most importantly sacrifice our interest for others whenever possible.

Sacrifice is the most important part of a family life. The happiest movement of my life is to see my family happier and if I don’t mind I if need to sacrifice my happiness for it. Helping each and everyone in my family makes me happy.

I try to help my mom in kitchen whenever possible and help my dad with his works. Well I never helped my sister much. We always used to fight with each other until her marriage (but she always cared for me). But now I really miss her, her husband and her beautiful son as they live in another city. And I missed all of them for four long years when I was in college. But now I am happy because I live with my parents from the past 6 months since my graduation. You can call me anything as I am 24 years old and living with parents, but I am happier than others of my age.

Once again, I would love to welcome anyone who wants to be a part of my family.

Famly behind every successful nation

I don’t know about how many successful people have family as the reason for their successful life. But a country with good families will be on top in the world. We don’t give importance to our family. It is the important reason for the fallout of our country. It may look illogical but it’s true. All the countries where people have good family life have successful life. By success I don’t mean to earn money and become the richest person in the world. Even if you were rich, you are a failure if you lose your money in the recession.

During 2007-08, when the entire world was under recession, there were some countries which were less affected. If you check them, you will realize that the family and cultural habits were the main reason for their country to survive the recession. I have been in many countries and lived with many families in all the countries. I realized that our country and families are missing many things in which they are perfect. Quite frankly we are missing the family itself. High divorce rate, single parenting, remarriages etc is high in our country. I mean come on what’s happening in our country.

They live a perfect family life. I have seen many extended families in some countries. I was surprised to see that people still live in extended family and in some places I was offered to spend some time with their families and be a part of the family for few days. Believe me or not, it was an awesome experience to live in an extended family. Can you imagine yourself living in an extended family where you can see everyone every day? They all love and care for each other. Another important thing I liked in some places is that people call outside people (other than their family) with some relationship like if people are of your parents age they call them uncle and aunt and if people are of your age then they call as brother and sister. This thing not only makes a strong family but also builds a strong society and strong nation.

We Americans aren’t close to our family. Many of us hardly meet our family once in a year. I don’t know how many of you go to family reunion. Those things are rare nowadays. People don’t get time to meet their family. We need to change a lot.

Failure: A good teacher

It may be a game. But many of us have the same situation in real

You can’t live a perfect life. Trust me; you will hate your life if it’s perfect. A perfect life will be boring. If you win throughout your life, then a small failure can collapse you totally. But for people who failed don’t care about it. But the truth is everyone fail somewhere in their life. Failure teaches a lot of things.

 Every famous person on earth has failed in something. The difference between them and rest of the people is that, they realized their failure, understood where they were wrong, consider it as an experience and continue their work. But others get disappointed and feel that they aren’t the best and they can’t do it.

There are people who failed several times in their life but never gave up and proved that they are the best. Everyone got the same stuff in their head, the only think matters is how you use it. Think differently, you can change your life.

Learn from your mistakes. Try again and again to achieve success in your life. Check out the history, all the great people you know learned from their mistakes. Read the biography of any person you like. You will realize no one on earth has succeeded in everything they tried in the very first time.

The first thing you need to do when you fail is to think where you have done a mistake and start it again. It’s impossible to live a life without failing. Many people, who pretend as if they never failed, are just creating an impression in the public that they never faced the failure. But the truth is they did.

If you want to win big, you must fail. And remember, never ever give up. Millions of people try achieving a task but all fails. Only few people try again and win. Now it’s up to you. Do you want to be one in a million or one among the million?