In most of the divorce cases, the basic reason they say is that, I don’t like him, his behavior and character. We all marry the person we loved. We are not like people from the eastern countries where marriages are arranged by their parents and relatives. We have the option to select the best person for our self, but still we have fight with the person we selected as the most suitable guy in our life.
It’s because of the wrong selection or maybe because you are tired of your sex life and are in need of another sex partner. Sometimes I feel like we really are more sex oriented people. People give importance to sex then to their family. They don't care about their children. Have you ever thought about children’s before splitting up?
I’ve been to many eastern countries where they have better marriage life then us. They live a good life together even in arranged marriages. They make fun of our culture. Several times I had debate with people. I know that I am wrong but it’s my duty to defend for our country and our culture. Even I fought with some people.
Once you are married to a person, you have to take care of your life partner in any condition. In any case whether he/she is mentally ill, physically affected or doing something wrong, it’s your responsibility to help him/her.
I am not a religious person, but in this case I prefer to follow what the religion says. You can’t forget the promise you made in your wedding. It’s you who selected your life partner. The best idea to avoid such problems is by selecting the best person for you.
You don’t have to spend months in deciding whether a person is right for you or not. You can decide it within a couple of minutes. There are plenty of ways to find about a person. I will write in another post about how to know about a person in the first sight. Contact me or comment here, if you want help in deciding about any person you know.
