Famly behind every successful nation

I don’t know about how many successful people have family as the reason for their successful life. But a country with good families will be on top in the world. We don’t give importance to our family. It is the important reason for the fallout of our country. It may look illogical but it’s true. All the countries where people have good family life have successful life. By success I don’t mean to earn money and become the richest person in the world. Even if you were rich, you are a failure if you lose your money in the recession.

During 2007-08, when the entire world was under recession, there were some countries which were less affected. If you check them, you will realize that the family and cultural habits were the main reason for their country to survive the recession. I have been in many countries and lived with many families in all the countries. I realized that our country and families are missing many things in which they are perfect. Quite frankly we are missing the family itself. High divorce rate, single parenting, remarriages etc is high in our country. I mean come on what’s happening in our country.

They live a perfect family life. I have seen many extended families in some countries. I was surprised to see that people still live in extended family and in some places I was offered to spend some time with their families and be a part of the family for few days. Believe me or not, it was an awesome experience to live in an extended family. Can you imagine yourself living in an extended family where you can see everyone every day? They all love and care for each other. Another important thing I liked in some places is that people call outside people (other than their family) with some relationship like if people are of your parents age they call them uncle and aunt and if people are of your age then they call as brother and sister. This thing not only makes a strong family but also builds a strong society and strong nation.

We Americans aren’t close to our family. Many of us hardly meet our family once in a year. I don’t know how many of you go to family reunion. Those things are rare nowadays. People don’t get time to meet their family. We need to change a lot.

Failure: A good teacher

It may be a game. But many of us have the same situation in real

You can’t live a perfect life. Trust me; you will hate your life if it’s perfect. A perfect life will be boring. If you win throughout your life, then a small failure can collapse you totally. But for people who failed don’t care about it. But the truth is everyone fail somewhere in their life. Failure teaches a lot of things.

 Every famous person on earth has failed in something. The difference between them and rest of the people is that, they realized their failure, understood where they were wrong, consider it as an experience and continue their work. But others get disappointed and feel that they aren’t the best and they can’t do it.

There are people who failed several times in their life but never gave up and proved that they are the best. Everyone got the same stuff in their head, the only think matters is how you use it. Think differently, you can change your life.

Learn from your mistakes. Try again and again to achieve success in your life. Check out the history, all the great people you know learned from their mistakes. Read the biography of any person you like. You will realize no one on earth has succeeded in everything they tried in the very first time.

The first thing you need to do when you fail is to think where you have done a mistake and start it again. It’s impossible to live a life without failing. Many people, who pretend as if they never failed, are just creating an impression in the public that they never faced the failure. But the truth is they did.

If you want to win big, you must fail. And remember, never ever give up. Millions of people try achieving a task but all fails. Only few people try again and win. Now it’s up to you. Do you want to be one in a million or one among the million?  

Brother and Sister

Many people don’t give importance to their brothers and sisters. They don’t respect them and don’t mingle with them. I see many people who even don’t care about them.

Everyone fight with his/her brother and sister. Even I fight with my sister. But that’s the best part of the relationship. But it shouldn’t be taken seriously. We both fight everyday but we also care about each other a lot. 

I’ve seen many people who don’t like to stay with their siblings and wait for the time either of them will get out. No one gets the brother or sister similar to him/her. But that’s what family is all about. Its you who should change your brother or sister to how you want or change yourself to how your bro or sis wants.  In my family we both sacrificed a lot of each other. I still remembered how much my sister sacrificed for me. Even though we care for each other, we never shown. We fought everyday for more than 18 years. I saddest movement was my sister’s marriage 3 years ago because she left to live in another city with her husband far from us. But still we talk everyday and meet at least once in a month. 

I don’t say that my sister is my best friend because for me brother-sister relationship is bigger than friendship. Some of my friends do the same. They fight with their siblings (every family has this problem). But I don’t know how many of them realize their love towards their siblings later.